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Oops, I've Made a Mistake - Now What?
I was asked to present to high school students as part of a program entitled
“Pittsburghers That Make a Difference.” My topic was Goal Setting. When
first asked to do this all I could think about was how boring a topic this would
be to teenagers. It was even boring to me. And then when I found out that
one of the other presenters was the veterinarian from the National Aviary
who was bringing the Froot Loops bird I knew I was in trouble. So I decided
to focus my talk on something kids and many adults tend not to think about –
failure.
What happens when you set a goal, are working toward it and realize the
goal was a mistake?
Forty-four percent of college graduates change their major between the
second semester of their freshman year and graduation day. Eighty-three
percent of the 2001 graduating class of Duke University were working for a
different organization within five years of graduation and 43 % had changed
careers at least once.
Setting goals and readjusting them is an ongoing part of life.
Remember two things with respect to setting goals:
#1. Begin with the end in mind – Know where you ultimately want to be.
#2. It is important to fail early – Don’t be afraid to take calculated risks.
If you have made a bad career choice, define your transferable skills and
start researching other opportunities. If you are in school and majoring in
something you feel will ultimately not make you happy, diversify your course
selection and change majors or minor is something new if it is too close to
graduation.
Your job, your ongoing education, your relationships, your outside activities –
they are like a boat at a dock. You will get one. You will get in it. Your boat
will start to pull away from the pier. If you have a set of oars, you will drive the
boat. If you don’t the boat will drive you. You probably won’t sink – unless
there is a terrible storm where faith and self worth will come strongly into
play. But you will more likely find yourself in the same inlet circling the same
waters over and over never being able to pull out of the harbor and into the
sea toward a destination.
Think about people whom you have heard repeatedly say, “I hate my job.”
They haven’t taken hold of the oars.
Goals are specific, measurable and time framed. “I am trying” is not a goal.
“I will do it within this amount of time” is.
So ask yourself, if circling the inlet is good enough for you? Who is driving
your boat?
In the words of Christopher Columbus, “You can never cross the ocean
unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.”
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Mary Lee Gannon went from being a stay-at-home mother with four children
to divorce, poverty and then on to become a newspaper reporter, trade
association executive director, public relations consultant, and foundation
president and CEO. View Mary Lee’s free career tips, worksheets and Blog
on her website at www.startingovernow.com. Contact Mary Lee at
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